Aperture

    Next time you see me, don’t be surprised by how different I seem. By the end of the month, I’ll bear stretch marks from all this spiritual growth. My aperture is widening, letting in more light, like a pupil learning the dark—pulling shapes from shadow.

    Don’t feel too bad if you don’t recognize me. These days, I scarcely recognize myself. I reread my journal—not so old—and meet a self from not long ago. I blush, uneasy in the presence of this stranger’s thoughts. Who is this? Not me. Not anymore.

    She was forlorn, studying all the ways she might fold herself into the corners of your life. Hansel and Gretel, following a scatter of crumbs—proof that something had passed this way, that it might pass again. Each small fact about you became a tool: how could she shape herself to slip a little closer, inch by inch, into your orbit? The sweet delusion that she might someday become something you would want. Somewhere in that careful craft, she vanished.

    Her thoughts and actions bent toward becoming someone you’d choose. It never—not once—occurred to her that she might already be whole, intact, meant for someone she hadn’t yet met.

    I couldn’t read much more about this former self—an apparition lingering at the grave’s edge, dead but not yet gone. Gathering the artifacts of who I was before I met you, the image shifted. The foreground sharpened; the background softened into blur. With the aperture adjusted, a figure emerged—steady, undeniable. I had always been here. I had only forgotten how to bring myself into focus.